Your bestie may know everything, but definitely not about HPV!

Sex as a topic was considered taboo for a very long period, at least here in India. 
In the past few years, however, more people are talking about sex and sexual wellness. People want to know more about how they can be safe and take care of their health. If you look at conversations online, you would see that there is more openness and a real desire to involve more and more people in taking care of their sexual health. 

Sexual wellness information and products are widely available online and it is best for every adult to understand as much as possible. In addition to all this, conversations around sexual health should happen offline, more often, in a safe space and with people you are close to. 

For young women, their roommates, close friends, and college gangs may be the first group of people where sex is discussed, information is exchanged, and doubts are cleared. And while they all talk about sexual experiences,  what is important is a talk that revolves around sexually transmitted infections.

So while your bestie might know everything around dating, the best deals on clothes, make-up, and the coolest places to hang out, there is something they may miss out on and that is information about HPV and HPV prevention.

HPV vaccine in India
HPV vaccine in India

What is HPV?

HPV, also known as the Human papillomavirus is the most common sexually transmitted viral infection. 1 Any gender that is sexually active can get an HPV infection. There are over 100 kinds of this virus that can affect you. 2      Nearly 80% of individuals who are sexually active are prone to get an HPV at some point in their life. 3

The term “papilloma” refers to a wart that results due to the HPV type. Almost 60 out of the 100 HPV types cause warts to develop on your hands and feet. The remaining 40 enter your body during sexual contact. Not all of these 40 types will cause serious health problems to you. 3

HPV is a common infection and in most cases, the infection goes away on its own. But some types of HPV are harmful to your well-being. Women might get cervical cancer, or cancer of the vagina, vulva, and anus.3

The best way to stay protected from HPV is to practice safe sex, use condoms and dental dams, go in for regular cervical screenings, and get the HPV vaccine. 

How does an HPV spread in the human body?

The major aspect you need to remember is that every sexually active man or woman can contract HPV during sex. Here are different ways it can spread:

Skin-to-skin contact: While having sex, whenever there is intimate skin-to-skin contact, whether it is near the vagina, or during anal sex, there is a high chance to get an HPV infection. 4

Oral sex: Whether you perform oral sex or deep kissing, there are high chances for you and your partner to catch this infection. 5

Other ways: Apart from sexual activity, there is a possibility of contracting an HPV infection even through genital contact without sex though this is not common. There might be other ways of catching this infection but that is still not clear. 4  In India, almost every case of cervical cancer is due to HPV. 7

Symptoms of HPV:

In most cases, there are no symptoms. The body clears the infection in a few years. Most people don’t even know that they had an HPV. But for a few unfortunate cases with high-risk HPV types, the impact lasts longer. 2

In women, the virus can cause changes in the cells of the cervix which can lead to cervical and vulvar cancer. 2 In another rare scenario, the same thing might cause abnormal changes in the cells of the anus or penis. 3

The symptoms of low-risk HPV type are warts. Depending on the type of HPV you might get different types of warts such as
  • Genital warts – Found on the anus, cervix, vagina, penis, or scrotum.
  • Common warts – Found on fingers.
  • Plantar warts – Found at the bottom of your feet.
  • Flat warts – Commonly found on your face and legs. 3

After 2 to 3 months of getting HPV infection, the symptoms may start to show. But there is no guarantee of this. Sometimes, you might see the symptoms after 3 weeks or even after a year. 6 In fact, 80% of HPV-related cancers can be treated and prevented. 7

Another notable fact is that Every 5 minutes, 1 individual loses their life to HPV-related cancer. 8 Hence, to be safe, doctors usually recommend that everyone get the HPV vaccine before they start getting sexually active or have just begun.

Today, cervical cancer is the second largest cancer that affects women in India. 9

I remember discussing with friends that longer use of oral contraceptive pills might increase the risk of women developing cervical cancer, thus making it very important that the use of medication should be regulated by experts. 10  

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How can I be safe from the HPV virus?

  1. Remember, that there is no guarantee of avoiding an HPV infection. As long as you are sexually active, there is always a chance of getting this infection. Hence, to be safe from this, speak to your doctor about getting the HPV vaccine. This vaccine can help in preventing HPV infection. 
  2. You can ask your doctor for more information and how it is helpful to you. Apart from the vaccine, there are treatments available for other symptoms of HPV.
  3. Getting tested frequently is important for both genders. But for women, it’s better to be frequently tested as they might catch the early signs of cervical cancer.
  4. Always use condoms or dental dams to perform oral sex and intercourse. 
  5. Limiting your sexual partners too is one way to reduce the risk of catching HPV infections.

HPV vaccine:         

This is best discussed with your doctor. Go with their consultation and get the HPV vaccine accordingly. HPV vaccines are available across the nation. Consult with your doctor before taking the HPV vaccine


HPV is an infection not many know about. In closed-door discussions with your besties, you may be shocked that either there is no awareness or very little information about prevention. Since this virus affects every sexually active individual, it is best if we start talking about it so everyone knows and can stay safe from it.

Read more about HPV and its prevention here
Issued in public interest by MSD India


  1. Centers for disease control and prevention  2022 
  2. Web MD What is HPV, , Accessed on 3 March 2021
  3. Centers For Disease Control & Prevention , accessed on March 2022
  4. American Cancer Society, , accessed on March 2022
  5. Bruni L, Albero G, Serrano B, Mena M, Collado JJ, Gómez D, Muñoz J, Bosch FX, deSanjosé S. ICO/IARC Information Centre on HPV and Cancer (HPV Information Centre). 
    Human Papillomavirus and Related Diseases in India. Summary, accessed on 11 March 2022 
  6. HPV Information Centre, , accessed on 11 March 2022 
  7. Asthana S, Busa V, Labani S. Oral contraceptives use and risk of cervical cancer Asystematic review & meta-analysis. Eur J Obstet Gynecol Reprod Biol. 2020 Apr;247:163-175

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23 Comments Add yours

  1. So glad I read your post and cleared my doubts on this topic. You are absolutely right when you said” sex topic is considered Taboo in our country”.

  2. Very happy to read Sexual wellness post, thanks for writing this masterpiece. Its very rare to read something about Sex and wellness, can you also write about STD?

    1. Afreen Ansari says:

      Thank you, will check on your suggestion

  3. Samata says:

    This is a well researched article which everyone should read and understand. I had several doubts on HPV and you cleared that so beautifully and am thankful to you.

    1. Afreen Ansari says:

      Always happy to be helpful

  4. Yes true. We barely talk about the safety measures when chatting with our besties. We are generally making fun or complaining about such things. Good to know such topics are in the open now.

    1. Afreen Ansari says:

      Totally, its a positive change

  5. Shilpa Garg says:

    HPV awareness is so very much needed as it can spread quickly and can have serious health repercussions. Thanks for this detailed and insightful post, Afreen.

  6. Harjeet Kaur says:

    Sex per se is not at all discussed in India. In these days of Tinder, Bumble and casual sex, there is hardly any knowledge about HPV or other STDs. There is a need to spread awareness like your post. It is so informative and I learnt a few things myself at this age.

  7. HPV awareness is much needed but as you said it is our responsibility to share this with our bestie. Early prevention and awareness is very much needed and your post is helpful

  8. Varsh says:

    This is such a helpful and informative post and will make people aware about HPV. Women need to take better care of themselves by talking about this with their gynaecologist.

  9. This is such an important post to discuss. I myself was nt aware about HPV and recently I found out about it. It’s so important to teach the next generation for prevention and safety.

  10. Ruchi Verma says:

    It’s so important to spread the right information and awareness about HPV on the right time. Thanks for sharing everything in well detailed.

  11. MeenalSonal says:

    Prevention is always better than cure. And you have listed all the possibilities, causes, symptoms and preventive methods. HPV vaccine is surely a must one to have it.

  12. radhika says:

    That’s a great post. One must know about this. I was not aware about HPV much. The blog is helpful to build up our knowledge regarding the term sex. Thanks

    1. Afreen Ansari says:

      It’s great to know

  13. True, Sex was and still is considered taboo so not talked about much and people have so many doubts and myths about the topic. Its good to be aware of the possibilities and good to know we have vaccines now to prevent HPV

  14. Prerna Wahi says:

    This is so useful. Thanks for sharing.

    1. Afreen Ansari says:


  15. Aesha Shah says:

    This is such critical information about HPV. Thanks for spreading awareness on such important topic because there is lot of misconceptions and taboo surrounding sexual hygiene.

  16. Kapila says:

    Thank you for sharing such important information. This is really helpful

  17. Nistha says:

    A very insightful post about HPV, glad to have gained knowledge about it in detail.

    1. Afreen Ansari says:

      Thank you

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